Note that this option works best when you send plain text email. Some email programs send both text & HTML in the same message. If you send a message this way, the recipient's mail program may only display the HTML, so you won't be able to see the added text line. Keep it simple, or the line that gets added to identify the message may get stripped away.
The header added is "X-originally-to"
To do this, you'll need to get them to forward you ALL of the headers (especially the 'Received:' headers). Unfortunately, each email program uses a different command to display these, and most users don't know what it is. (And the ones who do tend to not have this problem!).
Look through the header, there should be some lines that look like this":
Return-Path: YYYYYYY@sdforum.org Received: from proxy2.ba.best.com (root@proxy2.ba.best.com [206.184.139.13]) by shell12.ba.best.com (8.9.2/8.9.2/best.sh) with ESMTP id LAA13861 for <XXXXXXXX@shell12.ba.best.com>; Mon, 1 Feb 1999 11:56:36 -0800 (PST) Received: from sharon.sigma.net (root@sharon.sigma.net [206.79.203.20]) by proxy2.ba.best.com (8.9.2/8.9.2/best.in) with ESMTP id LAA19129 for <XXXXXX@best.com>; Mon, 1 Feb 1999 11:52:02 -0800 (PST) Received: from lists.sigma.net (medea.sigma.net [206.79.203.18]) by sharon.sigma.net (8.8.5/8.8.5) with SMTP id LAA05084; Mon, 1 Feb 1999 11:50:50 -0800 (PST) From: YYYYYYY@sdforum.orgLook at the Received: lines. If they have a 'for' entry, that will tell you the address. It may not be the address on your list, but it's a place to start. Check any addresses to see if they are on your mailing list. If not, you can at least see the names of the hosts that received the message, and can look for addresses on that host, in your subscriber list.
There are several options listed below for tracking this down. Always check the 'From: ' header first. You can use the Individual Delivery option on the mailing list, or you can check the 'Received:' headers.
There are two options for tracking this down. You can use the Individual Delivery option on the mailing list, or you can check the 'Received:' headers. Again, the 'Received:' headers can help you track this down.